Ethical Non Monogamy - Blog Posts

This has to be my quote of the year.

I truly believe this do you?

Mirrors are fun

Right where I want you to be...

Does anyone have any naughty plans this weekend? 😘

My outfit for the concert today....

Definitely wearing nothing underneath.

If you guys enjoy this one, i definitely have more pictures in this dress 😘

My outfit for the concert today....

Definitely wearing nothing underneath.

If you guys enjoy this one, i definitely have more pictures in this dress 😘

My boyfriend is taking pictures of my freshly shaved kitty 😽 to send to my hubby... It's definitely fun teasing two men 😈🔥🥵💦

Obediently awaiting 😛

I actually found it!!!!

This is my wife! It's incredibly hot to find these still on tumblr 😍

It was one of our best nights. I loved taking these pictures, I still have the originals somewhere.

Jeeps and thighs 😍 heavenly 😋

Hello everybody

Been off Tumblr for a while, hope to get back into all the fun we used to have

 via  Gridllr.com   —  quality reblogging!

Revised with the addition of BDSMLR

This sounds like fun. I also like when she tells me of past lovers. I’ve really been into her one night stands before she met me.

Tips for couples

This sounds like fun. I also like when she tells me of past lovers. I’ve really been into her one night stands before she met me.

We love role playing about chance encounters with strangers who we will never see again. It’s so sexy!

What are your favorite fantasy encounters?

This sounds like fun. I also like when she tells me of past lovers. I’ve really been into her one night stands before she met me.

Three is never a crowd... She is always the centre of attention. 🥰⚘️

Those who play together... stay together. 🥰🫶⚘️

I made this off of a random internet meme I found. The hearts from left to right are: non-binary, bisexual, polyamory, genderqueer, bigender, ethical non-monogamy, original pride flag colors from 1978, current pride flag colors.

is it still ethical nonmonogamy if one of the partners is evil

A personal rant because I'm hurting

Sorry, non tickles today, although I probably will start writing a new fic in order to cheer myself up.

Remember when I rejoiced over scoring a date with my crush? Well, that thing went out with a bang (and not the fun kind of).

For context, I've been polyamorous with my fiancée for the entire duration of our relationship. Dating others = completely a-okay, as long as our relationship is being nurtured as well and nobody lies or omits important information. This new guy was polyamorous too: I've known him and his nesting partner for years and I've seen them with other romantic partners. The nesting partner a.k.a. my metamour ("Meta") has been friendly with me all this time, so I assumed everything was fine. My crush and I took it quite slowly. Everything felt promising and healthy.

Yesterday he was visiting me for dinner & movie, and we ended up cuddling and kissing for the first time.

Today I then got massive bombs from both the Crush and the Meta: they had had an agreement any intimate action beyond greeting/goodbye hugs requires a permission from the other one first, and Crush hadn't asked for that permission for anything we had done that evening and he and Meta were probably breaking up now.

Now, I personally don't like any heads-up rules like that. I think they're controlling at worst and impractical at best: most often some sort of intimacy happens quite spontaneously, so even without malicious intent it's very easy to break that rule even accidentally. In my book, if you're polyamorous, you accept the fact your partner might end up kissing when they're on a date with someone else.

All that being said, Crush had broken a promise he had given to Meta. As much as I like him and frankly see the whole permission-granting thing unreasonable, I see broken trust as a red flag even if I'm not the victim, plus I don't want a relationship that is built on the cemetery of another one. I told him I don't want to keep seeing him anymore. I'm sad, disappointed, angry and bawling my eyes out.

I'll probably distract myself by writing some TF2 tickles stuff again but will avoid too much shipping fluff for a while.